All the time I’m running into guys who tell me things like “I’m 36, but I look 30, so I tell women I’m 29.” Less often, though still regularly, I see guys in their 30s and even 40s who try to dress, act, and talk like men in their 20s.In extreme cases these guys invade the clubs or college campuses to hit on younger women where they often look woefully out of place.
Instead of being a creepy older guy, you need to be a confident, especially if you’re talking over texts, online, or in a public place, and/or if you have not established clear rapport yet. I see way too many older guys who do have chances with younger women completely blow it by being too creepy, too verbally sexual, way too fast.They don’t want a 38 year-old guy who acts like he’s 27. Trust me, when you act your age, but are cool and non-creepy, Type 2 VYW are literally the easiest women to have sex with quickly. ” This is not ASD…no technique will bust through this.They want a 38 year-old guy who acts like a decently cool, non-creepy, 38 year-old guy. I’ve been doing this for years, and to this day I’m still surprised how fast and easy it is (once you find those Type 2s of course). It’s simply a very strong, visceral preference, often based on the age of her parents which obviously you have zero control over.While there are always unusual exceptions to every rule, this approach does not work.It fails for a very simple reason: The VYW most likely to have sex with you are the Type 2s, which are women who younger men their own age.Instead of talking about what to do to attract and date much younger women, something I’ve talked about before, today I’ll discuss what to do.